The Ground You Stand On - Softcover

Whitaker, Charles

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1835309224 ISBN 13: 9781835309223

Verlag: APS Books, 2026

Inhaltsangabe

Who told you who to be?
Every young man is living by a script he didn't write. It tells him what strength looks like, what success means, and what a real man does and doesn't do. Some of the script came from family. Some from the culture. And increasingly, a great deal of it comes from online voices who profit from his confusion.
This book offers a different path.
Not the loud, aggressive masculinity peddled by influencers who confuse dominance with strength. Not the wholesale rejection of masculinity that leaves a young man with nothing solid to stand on. But a grounded, emotionally intelligent, genuinely strong version of what it means to be a man — developed intentionally rather than left to chance.
The Ground You Stand On helps you see the script before it becomes your identity and gives you the tools to write your own.

"What struck me most was not the loudness of the message, but the steadiness of it. There is no blame, no performative outrage, and no attempt to force simplistic answers onto deeply human questions. Instead, it offers something far rarer: space to think."
- Laura Toop, systems thinker, strategic connector and creator of the #ProjectMe and #TogetherAsALLies frameworks

Charles Whitaker has spent decades working with men, first in senior leadership in manufacturing and then as a coach, clinical hypnotherapist and practitioner trained in depth psychology and shamanic practice. He holds a PhD. His previous book, Finding Your Bearings, was written for men over fifty who had lost their direction and wanted it back. This book catches them earlier.

A hard man can fight. A strong man can fight and choose not toWho told you who to be?
Every young man is living by a script he didn't write. It tells him what strength looks like, what success means, and what a real man does and doesn't do. Some of the script came from family. Some from the culture. And increasingly, a great deal of it comes from online voices who profit from his confusion.
This book offers a different path.
Not the loud, aggressive masculinity peddled by influencers who confuse dominance with strength. Not the wholesale rejection of masculinity that leaves a young man with nothing solid to stand on. But a grounded, emotionally intelligent, genuinely strong version of what it means to be a man — developed intentionally rather than left to chance.
The Ground You Stand On helps you see the script before it becomes your identity and gives you the tools to write your own.

"What struck me most was not the loudness of the message, but the steadiness of it. There is no blame, no performative outrage, and no attempt to force simplistic answers onto deeply human questions. Instead, it offers something far rarer: space to think."
- Laura Toop, systems thinker, strategic connector and creator of the #ProjectMe and #TogetherAsALLies frameworks

Charles Whitaker has spent decades working with men, first in senior leadership in manufacturing and then as a coach, clinical hypnotherapist and practitioner trained in depth psychology and shamanic practice. He holds a PhD. His previous book, Finding Your Bearings, was written for men over fifty who had lost their direction and wanted it back. This book catches them earlier.

A hard man can fight. A strong man can fight and choose not to

Details zur Ausgabe

• Verlag: APS Books
• Erscheinungsdatum: 2026
• Sprache: Englisch
• ISBN 10: 1835309224
• ISBN 13: 9781835309223
• Einband: Taschenbuch
• Anzahl der Seiten: 120
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