Money and Identity: Why Your Relationship With Wealth Is Really a Story About Who You Think You Are (The Money Psychology Series) - Softcover

Langford, G. B.

Softcover

ISBN 13: 9798199294843

Verlag: Independently published, 2026

Inhaltsangabe

You already know the biases. You have done the work. So why do you keep ending up in the same place financially?

If you have read the books on cognitive bias, understood loss aversion, recognised your spending patterns, and still find yourself returning to the same financial baseline you consciously want to leave, this book explains the layer underneath. The one most financial writing never reaches. Your relationship with money is not primarily a behaviour problem. It is an identity problem, and the research on money scripts, the extended self, and the psychology of the wealth thermostat shows precisely why changing what you do with money rarely sticks until you address who you believe yourself to be in relation to it.

This book is for adults who have already done serious work on the cognitive and behavioural dimensions of their financial life and found that something deeper keeps pulling them back. It is for anyone who notices that their financial life returns reliably to a baseline they do not want, who cannot bring themselves to charge what their work is worth or ask for the raise they have earned, or who has received a windfall only to watch it disappear in ways that surprised them. It is also for financial therapists, coaches, and counsellors who work with clients at this deeper level of money psychology.

What this book covers:

• What money scripts are, how researchers identified four empirically derived categories, and why a small number of largely unconscious beliefs predict adult financial behaviour with surprising accuracy
• How Belk's extended self framework explains why possessions feel like extensions of identity and why financial loss so often feels like losing pieces of the self
• The wealth thermostat: the documented tendency of people to return to a financial baseline after windfalls, setbacks, or significant life changes, and why this is identity work rather than a failure of discipline
• What lottery winner research reveals about the psychological architecture of wealth that money alone cannot install
• Why behaviour-based financial change produces inconsistent results while identity-based change is associated with more durable outcomes
• How childhood money messages become adult financial identity through processes that operate largely below conscious awareness
• The psychology of the earning ceiling: why people sabotage their own income in ways that are consistent with their financial identity, and what the research on impostor phenomenon and self-valuation shows
• Where self-directed identity work is sufficient and where the depth of the pattern requires a therapeutic container

This is not a manifestation guide. It does not claim that belief changes cause wealth or that the right mindset attracts money. What the research shows is more precise and more useful: financial identity shapes financial behaviour, financial behaviour shapes financial outcomes, and the path between belief and result runs through action, not through metaphysics. This book explains the mechanism with intellectual honesty and without the wishful thinking that has made this territory so hard to navigate.

Details zur Ausgabe

• Verlag: Independently published
• Erscheinungsdatum: 2026
• Sprache: Englisch
• ISBN 13: 9798199294843
• Einband: Taschenbuch
• Anzahl der Seiten: 231
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