I'm The One: The Radical Freedom of Being Self-Partnered in a World Addicted to Romance (Life in the Bliss Lane) - Softcover

Shivangi Pandé, Dr Sunayana

Softcover

ISBN 13: 9798247386438

Verlag: Independently published, 2026

Inhaltsangabe

What if the problem isn’t that you haven’t found the right partner—
but that romance itself has been oversold as the answer to everything?

In a culture obsessed with romantic love, pairing, and sexual validation, I’m the One offers a radical alternative: self-partnership—a way of living that restores peace, health, clarity, and sovereignty by ending the quiet violence of compulsory romance.

Drawing on psychology, neuroscience, trauma studies, cultural history, and lived experience, Dr. Sunayana Pandé exposes how modern romantic conditioning fuels jealousy, emotional dysregulation, chronic stress, illness, and even violence—while disguising these outcomes as “love.”

This book challenges some of our most cherished assumptions:

• That intimacy must involve possession

• That partnership is the pinnacle of adulthood

• That loneliness means you are missing something

• That love must be intense to be real

Instead, I’m the One introduces self-partnership as a biologically sane, emotionally stabilizing, and spiritually liberating way of life—one that treats the self as a beloved rather than a problem to fix or a resource to spend.

Inside, you’ll explore:

• Why romance often destabilizes the nervous system

• How hormones and media program obsession and longing

• The forgotten history of non-pairing humans and non-breeders

• How marriage and romance became tools of social control

• Why relationships exacerbate chronic illness and trauma

• What life looks like without drama, negotiation, or emotional debt

• How to devote yourself to your own well-being—without guilt

Part manifesto, part cultural autopsy, and part guide to embodied peace, I’m the One is not anti-love. It is anti-illusion.

This Valentine’s Day—and every day after—you are invited to stop waiting to be chosen.

You are already in relationship with the one person who will live every moment of your life with you.

You’re the one.

Details zur Ausgabe

• Verlag: Independently published
• Erscheinungsdatum: 2026
• Sprache: Englisch
• ISBN 13: 9798247386438
• Einband: Taschenbuch
• Anzahl der Seiten: 121
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