Weathering the Storm: A Survival Guide for Parents of Adult Children in Crisis - Softcover

Buteau, Erica R; Steller, Kendra D

Softcover

ISBN 13: 9798997051105

Verlag: Stearns Brook Press, 2026

Inhaltsangabe

Some storms arrive with warning. Others split your life into before and after.

Erica R. Buteau went looking for this book during the worst nights of her life—between a trauma-hospital chapel, a Boston ICU, and the long road home to northern New Hampshire—while her twenty-three-year-old daughter fought necrotizing fasciitis, sepsis, repeated surgeries, a coma, and a recovery that changed the family. She could not find the book she needed. So she wrote it.

Weathering the Storm is a compassionate, unflinching survival guide for parents of adult children in crisis.

Maybe your child is facing a medical catastrophe, suicidal thinking, psychosis, addiction, an abusive relationship, arrest, financial collapse, homelessness, disability, estrangement, or devastating loss. Maybe the emergency has passed, but your body is still living inside it. Maybe you are so exhausted you barely recognize yourself.

You are not weak. You are not failing. And you are not the only parent awake at two in the morning wondering what comes next.

Part raw memoir, part practical field guide, this book braids one family’s harrowing true story with research-informed guidance, scripts, checklists, reflection prompts, and hard-won tools for the moments when your voice is shaking.

Inside, you will find:

• An A–Z Emergency Weather Field Guide covering 26 crisis situations, with immediate triage, next steps, pitfalls, and words to borrow.
• Guidance for medical advocacy, privacy barriers, legal documents, discharge planning, benefits, disability systems, and crisis bureaucracy.
• Plain-language help for suicidal risk, mania, psychosis, involuntary evaluation, addiction, domestic violence, arrest, and housing instability.
• Practical boundaries that separate support from rescue without pretending love is simple.
• Honest conversations about guilt, resentment, burnout, money, marriage under pressure, overlooked siblings, and parenting differently than expected.
• Grounding tools, safety resources, and small next steps for a nervous system still reacting to helicopters, alarms, unknown numbers, anniversaries, and the quiet after crisis.

This book will not tell you to “let go” as if love has an off switch. It will not shame you for helping, glorify self-sacrifice, rank one family’s pain against another’s, or pretend every story ends in recovery.

Instead, it asks better questions: What is yours to carry? What requires professional help? When does care become rescue? How do you protect your child without disappearing? How do you remain a parent without becoming the entire treatment plan, crisis line, bank, chauffeur, case manager, and safety net?

With New Hampshire grit, dark humor, fierce love, and empathy, Buteau writes from inside the storm. She understands the hospital chair that does not recline far enough, the form listing the wrong person, the marriage strained by two trauma responses, the sibling whose milestone is overshadowed, and the guilt that can remain even after the child survives.

Love does not require you to disappear.

Weathering the Storm offers company, language, preparation, and a steadier place to stand. It reminds parents that safety comes first, boundaries can protect love, and support should reflect actual capacity.

A companion journal is also available separately for readers who want guided prompts, Weather Checks, Beacons of Light, and more room to process what they are carrying.

If your adult child’s crisis has left you invisible, terrified, angry, guilty, or unprepared, this is the hand on your shoulder—and the map—you have been looking for.

No one should have to weather the storm alone.

Details zur Ausgabe

• Verlag: Stearns Brook Press
• Erscheinungsdatum: 2026
• Sprache: Englisch
• ISBN 13: 9798997051105
• Einband: Broché
• Anzahl der Seiten: 268
• Kontakt zum Hersteller: Printed by Amazon on behalf of the author; https://www.amazon.fr/hz/contact-us; ; c/o Amazon Media EU S.à.r.l., 38 Avenue John F. Kennedy; Luxembourg; L-1855; Luxemburg