CHAPTER 1

How can I be male and female?

You came from a man and a woman

Even though I received what I share with you in this bookas a vision, I was always looking for information that wouldvalidate it more physically.

About seven years ago, a series of events drew me to theBible. As I opened my mind to the Bible I was amazed tofind truths that had been detailed there all along. The Bibleunveiled its cover as the most profound self-help tool everproduced.

A point in the making is my irritation at something Jesusconstantly says. I often felt irritated that every time Jesusspoke about a person, regardless of a man or woman, healways referred to them as a 'son of God'.

As a woman I felt very invalidated.

Though irritated, wisdom prompted me to reconsider thatGod made woman and he loves every one of his children, sosomewhere there was something I was missing.

In time, I came to understand how vital God valued thefemale. His creation started with plants, progressed toanimals, and then to male as he created Adam. God himselfconcluded this wasn't enough and went on to create thefemale, Eve. It was then that he concluded his creation wascomplete!

I looked at the process in which Adam and Eve were created,and this is what it says in Genesis 2:21-23:

And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall uponAdam; and while he slept, He took one of his ribs or apart of his side and closed up the place with flesh. Andthe rib or part of his side which the Lord God had takenfrom the man, He built up and made into a womanand He brought her to the man. Then Adam said, thiscreature is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh;she shall be called Woman, because she was taken outof a man.

As woman came out of man and is part of man (and theynow produce children) it is evident that every child containsmale and female.

Regardless of the fact that we manifest physically in onegender or the other, we are still both energies. As Godcreated it that way, it must be for a very important reason.God never created anything without it being necessary to thesuccess of his plan.

If we look back in Genesis 2:18, God says:

It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man shouldbe alone; I will make him a helper (suitable, adapted,complementary) for him.

God (our creator) makes it clear that if operating under maleenergy only we will start to feel alone and that the female inus suits the male side of us and is a complement and a helper.

That said, we can see that the female will not only help usto bring our power (which you will learn is male) into forcebut the female is also a complement. The dictionary defines acomplement as 'something that completes or makes perfect'.

The true dynamic of how we prosper starts to reveal itself.

Why do we manifest as only one gender?

Earth is a physical reality. In order for us to fully understandthe science and nature of how everything works together,everything has a specific function which can be seen. Wecan see the behaviour of everything around us as a physicalmetaphor showing us the pattern of how things thrive,evolve, and change.

Our instincts as humans drive us to create things whichmirror how we have been designed to experience things.

Our home is a perfect example. We instinctively start toseparate rooms for specific experiences because our mindworks that way. Sleeping, eating, and releasing waste areseparate functions within our body; therefore, the physicalworld naturally dictates that we separate them. Hence, wehave a bathroom for relieving waste and cleansing, a kitchenfor preparing nourishment, a sitting room for centringourselves and relaxing, etc.

The same can be said for man and woman. God wanted tohelp us understand the unique qualities of each. Having usborn as one gender or the other enables us to understand themmore literally and in detail.

You have probably observed that it is easier to see somethingor validate it when it is happening to someone else or inessence outside of yourself primarily because we are devoidof the emotional attachment which can cause resistance.

The separating of the male and female is designed accordinglyto enable us to see the nature of our characteristics and helpus relate to them more effectively.

As we operate under the law of attraction we attract to us aprecise reflection of the energies within us so we can see therelationship being played out; men and women play out therole operating within us. The intensification of one gender orthe other enables us to see the attributes in a focused, moreclear way.

You don't have to have lived long to observe the diversitybetween men and women. If you are in a relationshipwith your other gender, you have probably cried out indesperation, wondering why you are so different. However,it is essentially our misunderstanding of the other genderand how we are to interact with them that is leading to somuch pain and frustration.

The best way to simplify the power and the purpose of eachand why it is there is to use a simple analogy of life as ajourney.

CHAPTER 2

Understanding how your genders work

The manifestation of your highest fulfilment will require allof you. There is a vision for your life (potential) and that willrequire action (physical power).

Simply put, female represents potential and male representspower.

To explain how they can work together despite how differentthey are, let me explain the analogy.

A journey requires the use of a car and a map to reacha destination. A car and a map are completely differententities. Each functions differently; however, when usedtogether on a mission, they are a great success, just like themale and female within us. We need both sides of ourselvesto get where we are destined to go.

Any experience you want to achieve in your life will requirea desire, a vision (map), and a means to achieve it...