This book is for a person of mature age, any gender, any race and origin who wants to have a blessed successful relationship without problems. This book also belongs to you, who failed your first marriage and is seeking a second final chance of marriage. Welcome are you if you are an orphan, widow, poor or re-born spiritually. I encourage you to read this useful book and follow instructions.

Secrets of a Successful MARRIAGE Finally Revealed

Bless, Safe and Secure LOVE Call to Purity, Holiness and SanctityBy Fresnel Samson CARENA

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Copyright © 2011 Fresnel Samson CARENA
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ISBN: 978-1-4634-3001-6

Contents

INTRODUCTION.........................................................................................viiCHAPTER 1: Love and Marriage.........................................................................1CHAPTER 2: the Five commandments of Marriage.........................................................6CHAPTER 3: the Bible.................................................................................13CHAPTER 4: Factors that affects how we choose a partner..............................................16CHAPTER 5: Most important unique factors for a blessed, safe and secure marriage.....................29CHAPTER 6: other factors that can affect a marriage's blessings......................................40CHAPTER 7: Stages of a relationship..................................................................59CHAPTER 8: Most important celebrations...............................................................63CHAPTER 9: Life after marriage: Couple and family life...............................................68CHAPTER 10: the pregnancy............................................................................88CHAPTER 11: Sexuality................................................................................98CHAPTER 12: nature Vs Science........................................................................107

Chapter One

Love and Marriage

Love is important for a successful marriage. It appears in many ways and between livings creatures. Animals love each other as humans also do. In this case, we will be interested in human Love.

UNIT 1: LOVE

Love, a Devine treasure, is more expensive than diamond. It is sacred important and everybody is looking for the best love. What is the real meaning of love and marriage?

1.) Definition

LOVE: is a natural felling that exist and connect humans. We should love each other as ordered by God because he loves us too. For many people, being loved is really sacred and it not only defines but also is part of their happiness. Love should be until your last breath; however it appears in many ways.

2.) Different kind of love

They are currently many types of love such as Brotherly love, Friendship Love, romantic love, parental Love etc ... they are different based on its characteristics and depend on the person toward love or feeling is expressed. For example, love between husband and Wife is expressed by romance, intimate moment, kissing, sexual relation etc ... different from the love between brothers and sisters which is expressed by friendship, compassion, understanding, etc.... each one of them should not be confound. Also, maternal love is the affection a mother has for her baby.

3.) Crush

A crush is a strong; sudden and brief love feel toward another person. Most of the time, it does not last for a long period of time. A crush ends with regrets and hurt feelings and emotions.

Even though love is precious, is it really important?

4.) Importance of Love

Love is sacred, precious and very important. It makes people feel the joy of living and show that we all have the same God, happy to live together and rely on each other. A world without love is a world at war.

UNIT 2: MARRIAGE

Marriage is known when a man and woman symbolize their union with a finger ring. Marriage is as important as love but many people are unaware of the definition and how to get married.

1.) Definition

Marriage: is the union in Body, in Spirit and in Soul between a man and a woman. You become married to someone the first time you have sexual intercourse with your first partner. It is so important to stay with the first person because only the first marriage is recognized sacred. Men and Women had been created to form one body one day because they complete each other. Marriage is the seed of a family and a generation. Nobody should separate two people united by God. this prophecy is big.

Everybody does not get married the same way. What is the best way to get married?

2.) Different kind of Marriage

There are many ways to love and get married to someone. Today, everybody does not get married the same way. What is the best way to get married?

* Natural marriage

A marriage is natural when a man and a woman meet and know each other very well, then fell in love and began a family together. They each have a natural attraction toward each other and accept one another. A natural marriage is the best.

* Long distance relationship

A long distance relationship is very difficult. Meeting man or woman on the internet or looking for a date via the media is not truthful. There is a reason behind wall that make people to lean toward internet dating. Most of the time it is because they had been unsuccessful to find their soul mate. When man and woman are not together but communicate either by phone, mails, internet or fax is not appropriate. Most of the time it does not succeed and sometime end tragically. Long distance relationship is not the better way to have a blessed, safe and secure marriage.

The following difficulties are encounters during a long distance relationship:

• More expensive ways of communication

• Lack of trust and believe

• Virtual love and feelings

• Un-ability to know the person and the family very well

* Forced marriage

A marriage is forced when a man and a woman have been force to love and live with each other and begin a generation without their will or consent. Love should be natural and marriage should be too. For example, a woman is being forced to married a man because his family is wealthy. This practice still exists today in many countries and family.

A forced marriage has the following signs:

• Unreal love or/and feeling

• Constant arguments

• Absence of romance and natural sex

* Arranged marriage

An arranged marriage occur when there is a favor, an agreement between each other without mutual love. Having an arranged marriage is a really bad idea because love should be natural. Forced marriage and arranged marriage might look the same but are different. For example, a father gives a fortune to his best friend in exchange for his daughter. The best friend's daughter and the father's son might not have a natural connection, attraction. An arranged marriage is very common across the world and should be abolished. An arranged marriage has the same characteristics as a forced marriage because love is not natural between both partners.

* Prophecy marriage

A prophetic marriage is very rare. It is hidden because only God acts. Most of the time justice or revenge should be served. It is only visible with high spirituality families. In a prophetic marriage, the consequences are the results of the causes of the past and it is impossible to change or avoid anything.

* Spiritual marriage

A natural love and marriage should always be spiritual because it has been approved and blessed by God. In this case, the man and the woman are connected spiritually for the protection of their family and their marriage. It most likely occurs the first time they make love.

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